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Why are wealthy leaders so isolated despite being so connected?

From: Ch 11: What Does Amazing Look Like?

Because connection through devices isn't the same as trust. Kris Kluver, in The Dysfunctional Family Office, names this directly. People have never been more connected through social media and online tools, and never more isolated on a deeper, trusting level. Positions of wealth and influence amplify this dramatically. Most leaders have a thousand contacts and almost nobody they can actually call when something is hard. The visible connection is high. The trusted connection is rare. The pattern is structural for UHNW founders. Friends from earlier in life often feel like they're in different worlds. New relationships often have an angle. Family members are stakeholders. Team members report to you. The default condition for most wealthy leaders is loneliness amplified by surface visibility. The fix is the same as for any leadership isolation. Build a tribe deliberately. Pick people who have nothing to gain. Test for trust over time. The Thirty Advisors helps UHNW leaders build this. Learn more at thethirtyadvisors.com.

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