When the trust gap is structural, not informational. Kris Kluver, in The Dysfunctional Family Office, captures Gail Mitchell saying it directly to a skeptical procurement director. We don't need every client. We need the right clients. If you don't trust me, this won't work. I'd rather lose your business now than waste both our time pretending. The willingness to walk is what saves the relationship. Clients who can be persuaded by the right pitch usually weren't real clients in the first place. Clients who genuinely need to see if you'll stand for something tell you who you'd actually be working with. The willingness to walk also signals to your team that the company has a standard. The trade is real. Some accounts you really will lose. The accounts you keep on those terms are usually the ones worth keeping. Donovan Industries ended up doubling the contract after Gail told them she'd rather lose it.
When is it right to walk away from a big client who doesn't trust me?
From: Ch 15: The Test
Also asked
- fire client who doesn't trust you
- right clients vs every client
- I'd rather lose this account than waste both our time pretending it'll work