He sits down at the table and listens without interrupting. Kris Kluver, in The Dysfunctional Family Office, captures the moment exactly. Robert Mitchell walks out to the terrace, sees his three adult kids deep in conversation, and starts to speak. It's an old habit. He always had an opinion. Something stops him. He watches his daughter command the conversation and his sons engage as equals. He realizes he's seeing something he's never seen before. He joins them. Sits down quietly. Listens without interrupting. When his daughter eventually asks what he thinks, he says what he sees. They just did in one hour what he'd been trying to do for ten years. The shift is small in the moment and total in what it represents. The founder has stopped needing to lead the room. The kids have stepped into who they were meant to be.
What does it look like when a founder finally lets the next generation lead?
From: Ch 10: Nickels, Dimes, and Pennies
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