If legacy is built through daily behavior not grand gestures, what would I change starting this month?

Whatever your kids are watching when you're not performing. Kris Kluver, in The Dysfunctional Family Office, frames legacy as the accumulated record of small daily choices, not the grand gestures founders plan in advance. The kids remember the dinners you missed, not the speech you gave. They remember the way you spoke to the team, not the year-end bonus. They remember whether you were present when they were small, not the inheritance plan you built when they were grown. Most founders work on legacy as a final-year project. By then it's too late. The legacy was already built, in fragments, across thousands of moments that are now done. The fix is to start noticing the small choices in real time. Where you put your attention. How you speak to the people you love. What you actually do when nobody is watching. That's where legacy actually lives.